tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13503848.post9209424637586047200..comments2008-02-17T10:13:28.424-05:00CancerDochttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10705096018236984019noreply@blogger.comBlogger7125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13503848.post-45040536244596224362008-02-17T10:13:00.000-05:002008-02-17T10:13:00.000-05:00As a "freshly-minted" oncologist myself, I get this post. I am about to graduate from my own fellowship, and I found myself torn between the challenge of a career in academics and the allure of financial success in private practice. The discrepancy in pay between the 2 arenas was nearly 3-fold, enough to make anyone sit down and REALLY weigh the options. I love science, but in the end, I had bills to pay and years of denying myself any and all creature comforts in the pursuit of my ultimate career choice. My program director said I "sold out", choosing money over ambition. I was told I was answering the "sirens' calls". "You'll come back," they all say, "once you find out how immoral it is in the private sector." All I know is the same faculty who tell me these things continue to bitch that their cars are breaking down, their loans are piling up, and they can't get their grant applications to go through to support their work in the upcoming year. I'll take consumption over that mess anyday.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13503848.post-3393357153770695662008-02-04T10:53:00.000-05:002008-02-04T10:53:00.000-05:00It's ok to spend your money on creature comforts, if that is not the driving force of your life, and if you remember to also help those in less fortunate financial circumstances.<BR/><BR/>You're all right.W. G. scribenoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13503848.post-72678208052751112802008-02-03T09:22:00.000-05:002008-02-03T09:22:00.000-05:00you know, CD, reading your blog encourages me so much. 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ONE of the many allures of medicine for you was the lifestyle and status and freedom it could afford you. <BR/><BR/>for you, materialism is transitory. you have earned it. you are a good person. just enjoy it. if 5 years from now you have nothing to show for your life except silk ties and 5000 thread count comforters made from goose pubic fur or whatever, then yeah, you probably need to regroup. <BR/><BR/>never let your life become void of people that can nudge your materialistic ass back onto a meaningful path and you'll be fine.<BR/><BR/>as with everything else...when in doubt - balance. give away as much stuff as you bring in. donate your respectable car to npr who's always asking for donations - take bags of stuff to goodwill - you can make someone's day, week, year. <BR/><BR/>also, you're still living your annus mirabilis (i probably spelled that wrong) - your year of wonders. you have lived a lifetime of change in a very short time. this is all part of it - part of the transition, the adjustment. this is not the end of some road - it's still very much a beginning. enjoy your sweaters - let them be a cozy reminder of all you have accomplished and worked for. your work doesn't offer a lot of coziness some days, ya know?<BR/><BR/>xoAnonymousnoreply@blogger.com